[FIRST NAME GOES HERE], here's how to say the hard thing



Hey Reader,

Most people think having the hard conversation is what changes the relationship.

It doesn't. Avoiding it does.

In this week's podcast episode, I'm breaking down why the conversation you keep putting off is already costing you and exactly how to have it.

Here's what you’ll learn:

  • Why staying silent is changing things more than speaking up ever would
  • Why "start with the end" cuts the anxiety out of a hard conversation before it even starts
  • The mindset I use before every difficult conversation, in my law practice and at home

If there's something you've been needing to say to a spouse, a coworker, a parent, or a friend, and you keep finding reasons to wait, this episode is for you.

Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or your favorite podcast platform.

Let’s fix this,
J


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