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your october favorites

Published 7 days ago • 2 min read
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Hey Reader,

October was all about finding your backbone without losing your composure.

Here are the three posts that resonated most with the community this month.

Whether you missed them or just want a quick recap, here's what got people talking:

#1. Being Nice Won't Save You in Difficult Conversations

Think being agreeable will get people to treat you better?

Here's the truth: it won't.

Being nice in conflict often gets you steamrolled, not respected.

There's a big difference between being too nice and being respectful.

Respectful firmness is the real power move.

Want to know how to stop people-pleasing your way through tough conversations?

👉 Listen on YouTube

#2. You Don't Owe Everyone Your Story

Ever felt pressured to explain yourself to someone who hasn't earned it?

It happens all the time.

But here's what you need to know: your story isn't for everyone.

Sharing with the wrong people doesn't create connection—it creates regret.

The real question is: have they earned the right to hear it?

👉 Watch on Instagram

#3. How to Handle Difficult Coworkers

When dealing with a difficult coworker who always seems to be on edge, most people miss this truth:

They're not always trying to win.

Most of the time, they're trying to matter.

And how you respond either gives them a reason to lower their guard or dig in deeper.

Here's how to handle them without losing your cool:

👉 Read on LinkedIn

I don't take it lightly that you're here, Reader.

The fact that you keep showing up to learn and grow says everything about the kind of person you're becoming.

And it inspires everyone around you to do the same.

Let's make November count,

J

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Jefferson Fisher

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