3 easy ways to diffuse an argument
Hey Reader, Ever feel like you’re just going in circles during an argument? Let’s change that. Here are 3 responses to help you diffuse arguments: 1: “Maybe you’re right.” Facing someone who’s convinced they’re the only one with the right answer? Instead of planting your feet into the ground, try responding with “Maybe you’re right.” It’s a simple, yet effective way to show you’re considering their viewpoint—which is probably all they’re looking for. 2: “I can do better.” Stuck rehashing past mistakes? Say, “I can do better.” It instantly puts the flame out and puts you in a position of responsibility and maturity. 3: “Tell me how I can help.” This moves the conversation from blame to solutions. It also provides an opportunity for them to share more, because maybe they don’t need help. The other person might just be looking for a conversation rather than an argument. And that’s how to diffuse an argument. - J. P.S. The goal isn't to “win” the argument, but to find common ground and progress. |
Jefferson Fisher
Simple, practical communication advice for your next conversation.
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