disagree with them on *every* level?



Hey Reader,

Someone brings up that topic.

You know the one.

And the room gets tense.

Your blood pressure spikes.

And you're thinking, How can they possibly believe that?

Here's the truth:

You don't have to agree with them. Ever.

But you can have a conversation without it turning into a five-year estrangement.

In this week's episode, I'm sharing 3 strategies for talking to someone you completely disagree with—without losing your mind or your relationship.

Here's what you'll learn this week:

  • Why arguing the opinion gets you nowhere (and what to focus on instead)
  • How to shift from proving your point to actually understanding theirs
  • My "water your own garden" approach to protecting your peace

Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or your favorite podcast platform.

These strategies will help you stay calm, keep the conversation productive, and walk away without regret.

You can listen now wherever you tune in.

J

P.S. Got a tough conversation coming up? This episode is your game plan. Listen now.


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