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Jefferson Fisher

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Published 10 days ago • 1 min read

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Hey Reader,

Some people drain the life out of every conversation.

They interrupt, pick apart your words, or shut down anything that doesn’t match their opinion.

So how do you handle it?

How do you communicate clearly—without getting defensive or backing down?

In this episode of the podcast, I’m sharing 3 communication strategies I’ve used for years in courtrooms, depositions, and high-stakes negotiations.

Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:

  • The 1 word to swap that instantly makes you less combative
  • A phrase that builds common ground—even when you disagree
  • The courtroom trick that helps you stay calm and in control

Listen to this week's podcast episode now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you tune in.

-J

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Jefferson Fisher

Trial Attorney & Communication Expert

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