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Jefferson Fisher

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Published 8 days ago • 1 min read
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Hey [FIRST NAME GOES HERE],

You know those people who instantly light up a room?

Who make you feel seen, heard, and somehow just… get it?

That’s not luck or magic.

It’s communication.

This week on the podcast, I’m talking with my friend Vanessa Van Edwards—a human behavior expert—about how charisma actually works.

Not in a fake, performative way.

In a real, practical, science-backed way.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

  • Why your “hello” matters more than you think
  • Subtle body language cues that make or break trust
  • How to show up with confidence—without overthinking every move

Whether you're trying to make a better impression at work, connect more deeply in your relationships, or feel more confident in conversation…

This episode is packed with takeaways you can use right away.

Tune in now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you listen.

-J

P.S. What’s 1 communication skill you’d like me to address on my next podcast? Hit “reply” and let me know.

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Jefferson Fisher

Trial Attorney & Communication Expert

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