[FIRST NAME GOES HERE], here's where most conversations go wrong



Hey Reader,

I can't tell you how many times I've watched a hard conversation fall apart before it ever gets going. In this week's episode, I'm breaking down the 3 biggest mistakes people make in hard conversations, and how to fix each one.

Here’s what’s in this episode:

  • Why "always" and "never" turn any conversation into an argument about accuracy
  • Why the more you explain a "no," the less it sounds like one
  • Why the first seven seconds aren't about your words (and what to do when they go wrong)

If a conversation has ever gone sideways before it even got started, this one is for you.

Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or your favorite podcast platform.

Can’t wait for you to hear it,
J


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