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Jefferson Fisher

[FIRST NAME GOES HERE], stop making this boundary mistake

Published 7 days ago • 1 min read
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Hey Reader,

I see this communication mistake all the time: someone finally works up the courage to set a boundary, but then they start explaining the “why”. They add reasons, context, and justifications. Suddenly, their boundary isn’t a boundary anymore - it’s a negotiation.

In this week’s episode, I’m breaking down why overexplaining is the fastest way to weaken your boundaries and sharing what to say instead.

This week you'll learn:

  • Why saying “no, because…” invites people to push back
  • What people hear when you overexplain your boundary
  • Simple phrases you can use when someone keeps pressing for a "yes"

If you’ve ever felt pressured into saying yes after setting a boundary, this episode will help you stand your ground.

Listen to the episode now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you listen.

You’ve got this,

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Jefferson Fisher

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