what to do when someone talks over you



Hey Reader,

You’re mid-sentence, making a point.

And suddenly they jump in with, “Well, you know what I think…”

Just like that, they’ve taken over the conversation.

Now what?

In this week’s podcast episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to respond when someone talks over you—without raising your voice or losing your ground.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

  • The common (but ineffective) responses that actually make you look desperate
  • What to say instead—so you stay confident and in control
  • Why your tone and tempo matter more than you think

You don’t need to yell.
You don’t need to fight for attention.
You just need the right approach.

And I’ll teach it to you in this episode.

Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or your favorite podcast platform.

Glad you're here,

J


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Jefferson Fisher

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