your september favorites



Hey Reader,

This month, we’ve been practicing ways to handle tough conversations.

Here’s a roundup of the community’s favorite tips from September.

If you missed one or want to catch the highlights, these are the posts and videos that stood out:

#1. What to Say When Someone is Yelling at You

Ever been on the receiving end of someone yelling at you?

It’s tempting to yell back, isn’t it?

But here’s the thing—raising your voice only fuels the fire.

Instead, staying calm and controlled is how you take the power back.

Want to know how to do it?

👉 Watch on Instagram


#2. 3 Communication Mistakes That Are Making You Lose Control

Ever feel like a conversation slipped right through your fingers?

You’re not alone—it happens to the best of us.

But here’s the good news: you can avoid the common mistakes that make you lose control.

In this podcast episode, I’ll show you exactly how to stay steady and in charge.

👉 Watch on Youtube


#3. What to Do When Someone's Angry

When someone’s angry, the knee-jerk reaction is to get defensive, right?

But defensiveness only makes things escalate.

The real power move is staying calm and steady so you can guide the conversation instead of letting it spiral.

Here’s exactly how to keep your cool when someone is angry:

👉 Read on LinkedIn

Thanks for showing up and committing to being your best, Reader.

Every time you step up and put in the work, you’re not just raising the bar for yourself—you’re lifting this whole community with you.

Here’s to a strong October,
J


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This list is your toolkit for navigating tough conversations with clarity and confidence.

Use these phrases to set boundaries, de-escalate tension, and keep control of the moment without losing your cool.

Print it out, keep it handy, and watch how these simple shifts can transform the way you communicate.


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