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Simple, practical communication advice for your next conversation.
Hey Reader, February was all about building confident responses, both in casual and high pressure situations. If you missed any of this month’s content (or just want a quick recap), here are the community’s top 3 favorite tips: #1. How to Respond When Someone Says, “I Was Just Joking” That one line can feel dismissive and hurtful, like you are beneath or less intelligent than the person speaking. The truth is, it’s often not a joke at all. It’s a subtle power play. When you call it out calmly...
Hey Reader, I can’t tell you how many times I’ve watched a CEO or a business owner, someone who looks like they have it all together, walk into a deposition room with confidence. But ten questions in, they unravel because they couldn’t handle the pressure of the high stakes situation. In this week’s podcast episode, I’m teaching you how to be pressure-proof — whether you’re on the stand, in a boardroom, or in a conversation that suddenly feels like cross-examination. Listen to this week's...
Hey Reader, One of the most common questions I get: "How do I advocate for myself without feeling selfish?" The answer is simpler (and easier) than you'd expect. Here’s how to get what you want without pressure, guilt, or a power struggle: #1. Start by making them feel heard. People resist when they feel dismissed. So before you pitch your idea, affirm them first. For example, "I can see how you came to that idea." You don't have to agree with their thoughts to acknowledge them. Making them...