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Published 5 days ago • 2 min read
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Hey Reader,

February was all about building confident responses, both in casual and high pressure situations.

If you missed any of this month’s content (or just want a quick recap), here are the community’s top 3 favorite tips:

#1. How to Respond When Someone Says, “I Was Just Joking”

That one line can feel dismissive and hurtful, like you are beneath or less intelligent than the person speaking. The truth is, it’s often not a joke at all. It’s a subtle power play. When you call it out calmly and precisely, you regain control of the moment and command respect.

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#2. Your Phone Is Breaking the Connection

We’ve all reached for our phones mid-conversation. A glance, a buzz or a scroll and instantly our attention is somewhere else. Strong communication isn’t just about what you say — it’s sometimes more about what you do. In this Instagram reel, I sit down with Steven Bartlett and demonstrate my string theory — a simple way to see how your phone quietly breaks connection. If you missed it, watch what happens when you choose to be present instead.

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#3. The Most Powerful Way to Deal with Toxic People

Negative interactions can hijack your mood and pull your focus off course. You need to have a strategy in place before it happens. In this video I share a clear approach for staying composed, protecting your peace, and steering the conversation back to productive ground.

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I don’t take it lightly that you spend your time and attention here. Your commitment to growing your confidence and communication skills is meaningful — not just for you, but for the people around you, too.

Here’s to better conversations ahead,

J

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