Hey Reader, The best communicators aren't the ones with the best comebacks. They're the ones who ask the best questions. Anyone can come up with an answer. But finding the right question takes skill. In today’s episode, I'm teaching you how to ask better questions when someone is insulting you, pushing against you, or trying to pull you into an argument. This week you'll learn: How to ask clarifying questions that keep you from getting defensive What to ask when you want to uncover someone’s...

Hey Reader, You can’t control other people. That’s true at home, work, social gatherings, and even at sporting events. Your only leverage is in your own words. Sierra and I have this conversation with our kids a lot: You don’t get to choose what someone else says or does. You only get to choose what you do next. That’s what this week’s tips are about. Let’s jump in. #1. From My Inbox: “How do I kindly respond to a micro-corrector who acts like a know-it-all?” Take a breath before you answer....

Hey Reader, This week, I'm answering your questions about family. Family knows how to push your buttons. They know what hurts, and sometimes they push anyway. You can spend years trying to get them to understand. But your job is simpler than that. Your job is knowing what to say next. In today’s episode, I’m giving you practical ways to protect your peace, hold your boundaries, and stop carrying what belongs to someone else (even when it's family). You'll learn: What to say when a family...