how to handle bad apologies



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Hey Reader,

Ever received an apology that didn’t feel genuine?
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How do you react and what do you say?
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​This is one of my most requested topics, so I made a new podcast episode all about it :)​
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In this episode, I’m revealing 3 types of bad apologies and how you need to respond.

Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or your favorite podcast platform.

When you use these 3 strategies to deal with bad apologies, you’ll get the accountability you deserve without making things worse.

You can stand up for yourself and keep the conversation respectful.

I’ll teach you how in this episode.

You can listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or your favorite podcast platform.

Thank you for being here and for listening.
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J
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Jefferson Fisher

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