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how to talk to a narcissist

Published about 1 month ago • 1 min read
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Hey Reader,

How do you talk to a narcissist?

I know what you’re thinking:

You don’t. You just DON’T, Jefferson.

But let’s be real. That’s not always an option.

Why?

Because chances are, you’re related to one, married to one, or working alongside a personality like that every day.

And that means sometimes you can’t just walk away.

So, what do you do?

In this week’s podcast episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to handle conversations with someone who has narcissistic tendencies—without losing your cool, your confidence, or your sanity.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

  • The mindset you need to protect yourself when dealing with narcissists
  • How to use neutral responses to shut them down when they provoke you
  • How to set boundaries and limit your exposure to their manipulative tactics

You don’t have to feel like you’re talking to a wall or stuck in a never-ending argument.

Let’s make sure you’ve got the tools to handle these situations with clarity and control.

Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or your favorite podcast platform.

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Jefferson Fisher

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