someone being rude? here’s how to respond…
Hey Reader, Here’s how to respond to rudeness without losing your cool: 1: “Did you mean?” Start your response with, “Did you mean?” Ex. “Did you mean for that to be insulting?” “Did you mean to come across rude?” This shows how you interpreted it and gives them a chance to clarify or apologize. Often this will prevent an argument altogether. (This also works very well with email and text. Example: “Did you mean for that text to be short?”) 2: “Sounds like you’re having a hard day.” When faced with passive-aggressiveness, try empathy. “Sounds like you’re having a hard day,” or “Have I done anything to offend you?” This tells them you’re perceiving something negative and lets them express what’s really bothering them. 3: Good ole silence. My personal favorite. Ignore it and say nothing. It’s the ultimate power move. Then just move on. And that’s how to handle somebody who’s rude to you. - J. P.S. Remember, how you respond to rudeness says more about you than their behavior ever could. Rise above it and keep your light bright. |
Jefferson Fisher
Simple, practical communication advice for your next conversation.
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