[FIRST NAME GOES HERE], here are 5 skills my wife and I teach our kids about communication



Hey Reader,

You know I talk about communication all the time, but what do my wife and I actually do in our own home? In this episode, I lay it out for you—for parents or anyone responsible for kids.

Our kids are ages 8 and 6, and if you have young kids, you know... it's a handful. :) So, today I'm pulling back the curtain on the 5 things we teach our kids to help them become strong communicators—starting right now, at home.

In this episode, you’ll learn these 5 tips:

  1. Why modeling repair (and apologizing fast) changes everything
  2. How we teach emotional regulation (and the simple breathing cue we use at home)
  3. Why we let our kids argue - and the 3 rules we never compromise
  4. How to train advocacy so your child learns to ask for what they need
  5. The perspective question I use to help them think about “the moment after” their words

Before you listen, know this: these tips are not about perfect parenting. (My wife and I get it right maybe 65% of the time!)

I'm teaching you how to be intentional. Because one day, the voice you use now will become their inner voice. And that voice will either build them up or tear them down.

Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or your favorite podcast platform.

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