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these 3 rules get instant respect

Published about 16 hours ago • 1 min read
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Hey Reader,

You show up.
You contribute.
You’re kind.

But deep down…

You don’t feel respected when you speak.

In this week’s podcast episode, I’m talking about exactly that—how to be more respected in your communication, without changing who you are.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

  • How to use a slower, calmer voice to instantly command more respect
  • The go-to response that helps people know where you stand (even if you don't know the right answer)
  • What to say when someone crosses the line—and how to do it without apologizing

I won't tell you that you need to change your personality to be respected.

I'll teach you how to match your delivery to the moment—especially when the stakes are high.

Because respect starts when your words and presence align.

And you can absolutely learn how to do it.

Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you tune in.

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Jefferson Fisher

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