profile

Jefferson Fisher

these 3 rules get instant respect

Published 5 months ago • 1 min read
​

Hey Reader,

You show up.
You contribute.
You’re kind.

But deep down…

You don’t feel respected when you speak.

In this week’s podcast episode, I’m talking about exactly that—how to be more respected in your communication, without changing who you are.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

  • How to use a slower, calmer voice to instantly command more respect
  • The go-to response that helps people know where you stand (even if you don't know the right answer)
  • What to say when someone crosses the line—and how to do it without apologizing

I won't tell you that you need to change your personality to be respected.

I'll teach you how to match your delivery to the moment—especially when the stakes are high.

Because respect starts when your words and presence align.

And you can absolutely learn how to do it.

Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you tune in.

J

*Sponsorship Transparency: I only recommend products we use and trust. If I wouldn’t put it in my own home, I won’t put it in yours. Simple as that.

Get daily practice: Join The School of Communication here.

Read all of my past emails here.

Inbox overloaded? Set your email frequency here.​

No longer want to hear from me? Unsubscribe here.​

156 S. Main Street Ste 300 #769, Lumberton, TX 77657

​

Jefferson Fisher

Trial Attorney & Communication Expert

Simple, practical communication advice for your next conversation.

Read more from Jefferson Fisher

Hey Reader, Someone brings up that topic. You know the one. And the room gets tense. Your blood pressure spikes. And you're thinking, How can they possibly believe that? Here's the truth: You don't have to agree with them. Ever. But you can have a conversation without it turning into a five-year estrangement. In this week's episode, I'm sharing 3 strategies for talking to someone you completely disagree with—without losing your mind or your relationship. Here's what you'll learn this week:...

13 days ago • 1 min read

Hey Reader, Ever been in a conversation where you can't get a word in? You have something important to say, but the other person keeps talking over you. It’s frustrating, right? Most people try to fight for the floor, but that only creates tension. Here's a better way to handle it: #1. Use their name to transition. When someone's on a roll, interrupting with "But..." or "Actually..." triggers defensiveness. They double down because it sounds like opposition. But, using their name works...

18 days ago • 1 min read

Hey Reader, Someone called me out yesterday: "Why do I need a workbook? Just tell me what to say." Honestly, it's a fair question. Here's why I wrote The Next Conversation Workbook: Knowing communication tips is one thing. But using the right words when you're in the conversation? That's different. I can tell you the three Cs—Control, Confidence, Connect—over and over. And you can know them in your mind. But when you're face-to-face with someone and the conversation is going sideways… That's...

19 days ago • 1 min read