Hey Reader, We often hear that asserting a boundary means drawing a line. But it’s not a line. A boundary is a border. Think of a map—or just driving around your neighborhood. When you see somebody’s fence, it tells you what they own. What they claim to be theirs. Boundaries work the same way. They inform the outside world about where your values are. Let’s say your family is your top priority. That’s a value. We know your values because of the boundaries you set. You say no to the networking...

Hey Reader, You show up.You contribute.You’re kind. But deep down… You don’t feel respected when you speak. In this week’s podcast episode, I’m talking about exactly that—how to be more respected in your communication, without changing who you are. Here’s what you’ll learn: How to use a slower, calmer voice to instantly command more respect The go-to response that helps people know where you stand (even if you don't know the right answer) What to say when someone crosses the line—and how to...

Hey Reader, You have great ideas in meetings. But when you speak up, people don’t take you seriously. Your ideas deserve attention, but they’re falling flat. Why? Because you’re downplaying your ideas instead of asserting them.Here’s exactly how to fix that: Next time someone asks for your opinion in a meeting, don’t start with “I think” or “I feel.” Soft language undercuts your credibility. So use predicting language instead like: “I predict…”“I anticipate…”“I envision…” It signals that...